If you don't change your original intention, you can't be without principles.

As a social person, no matter who you are, you will encounter the confrontation between responsibility and human affection more or less in the world. At this time, if you insist on responsibility, you should stand up rationally. We do this not to ask for a "like" from others, nor to say "good" to everyone, but to adhere to the principle under the premise of maintaining the original intention. 


Chen Feifei and her boyfriend have been in love for a long time, but irreconcilable problems have occurred between them. 

The reason is very simple, Chen Feifei has a gentle personality and gets along well with people. However, she found that her boyfriend's true personality was a matter of balance, and he often lost his temper over trivial matters. This made Chen Feifei very distressed. In order to seek peaceful coexistence between the two, she could only try to accommodate her boyfriend's behavior. 

But Feifei's best friend thinks that Feifei's doing this is meaningless, and there will be nothing to gain except being tired, so it's better to let go. It's just that Feifei is reluctant. For so long, she can't just let it go. So I can only accommodate my boyfriend more unprincipled. Later, her boyfriend said to her: "You have no personality at all." Therefore, the two eventually broke up. 

A woman without principles will make men's respect impossible to start, so they will despise women, thinking that since she can have no principles, then he can do whatever he wants in front of this woman. Therefore, gentleness and accommodating are certainly good elements of a woman's personality, but they should not lose their bottom line because of this. 

Li Yuan and Chen Sisi joined the company in the same year and are best friends at work. Apart from work, they are also as good as sisters in life. They eat together, go shopping together, and go for beauty treatments together. Colleagues in the office commented that the two of them are "too fat even in a pair of pants." 

Li Yuan and Chen Sisi have completely different personalities. Chen Sisi always complains about how tiring work is, the salary is pitiful, and there is not even a cent of gray income. And Li Yuan feels that although the salary is not high, the work is still full of fun. As for family circumstances, this cannot be changed, but Li Yuan often invites her to dinner with her own salary, buys two pieces of clothes, and often brings her some takeaways or fruits when Chen Sisi is busy. 


Slowly, the friendship between Li Yuan and Chen Sisi deepened day by day. But what Li Yuan never dreamed of was that Chen Sisi actually deceived herself and was still playing tricks behind her back. 

Not long ago, the boss asked Chen Sisi to go to the planning department and asked Li Yuan to take over the job of buying office supplies. The boss said to her: "Don't buy off-brand office supplies, especially toner cartridges, so as not to damage the printer." Li Yuan agreed, and for the long-term interests of the company, of course, she bought it. Coincidentally, when she was buying toner cartridges, the two printers in the company could not type. 

Li Yuan approached Chen Sisi and asked about the previous model of the toner cartridge and what the price was, but Chen Sisi avoided talking and cleverly changed the topic. Seeing her like this, Li Yuan had to find a place to buy by herself. Soon, she found a sales platform on the Internet, the price was cheaper than the original one, and there was a lottery. In the case of not harming the interests of the company, it can bring benefits to yourself, so why not do it? 

So, Li Yuan consulted. Unexpectedly, they are still a big company with branches in cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, and Chengdu. If you buy it, you will receive it the next day. 

Later, Li Yuan bought 2 pcs. Sure enough, she received the goods the next day. Li Yuan checked it, and the quality was many times better than before! It was also because she was too happy. After a few days, the toner cartridge would not work, and the output text was very shallow. Li Yuan immediately called the online shopping platform and they said no, the toner cartridges they sold had never happened to this before, but they quickly sent her a new toner cartridge. After Li Yuan changed, everything returned to normal. A week later, the same situation happened again, and the helpless Li Yuan contacted the online platform again. The customer service of the online shopping platform felt strange and immediately sent someone to the company to take a look. 

At this time, the employees in the company began to talk a lot, saying that Li Yuan spent a high price on counterfeit toner cartridges to get kickbacks and caused the company to suffer losses. She is a black-hearted woman! It was a small incident, but I didn't expect it to have such an impact on the company. The boss quickly learned of this incident and came to see what happened. When the technicians and the person in charge of the network platform arrived, after inspection and verification, the result was given: the toner cartridge was artificially damaged, and the left tension spring was removed. 

In this way, Li Yuan's grievances were washed away, and another secret was revealed. It turned out that the cost of the toner cartridges purchased by Chen Sisi was very low, only a few dozen yuan, but she did not expect that the price she reported was more than 600 yuan. The company consumes an average of 2 toner cartridges a month, which means that Chen Sisi will have about 1,000 yuan every month. Gray income, she created troubles, just to let the company leaders understand that she is the best person to purchase office supplies. Unexpectedly, the stone she lifted smashed her foot. 

The next day, Chen Sisi never showed up in the company again. Colleagues all said that she had no face to hang out in the company and resigned voluntarily. 


Things have passed, and life has returned to peace. This incident sounded a wake-up call to Li Yuan: As a human being, you must have your own bottom line, and don't forget the original intention of doing something in the first place. 

Chen Sisi thought that the fact that he was getting kickbacks was perfectly hidden, but unexpectedly, he still revealed his fault. In order to cover up these things he did, he sacrificed his friendship with Li Yuan, which is really infuriating. However, no matter how well hidden, one day everything will be exposed to the sun. 

A person must have his own bottom line and principles. In the workplace, the honor and disgrace of employees is closely related to the company. Anyone who only thinks about their own interests will soon be eliminated from the workplace, or even by this society. On the contrary, people like Li Yuan who have principles and bottom lines will always be entrusted with important responsibilities.

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